Fuck (18PL)
“What the fuck do you want?”
That is what I threw to Hayden this morning. Hayden has been driving me mad in this couple of days, he keeps screaming in the middle of the night like a wolf-dog. I was awakened by his screaming every night recently. Abbie nurses him, I change diaper for him, we do everything we can for him, but that does not help to stop him at all. I am getting impatient with him.
After I threw the above question to him, immediately he stopped screaming. I am guessing Hayden probably understands the word “fuck”. He knows his daddy is no easy dude, he knows he has everything to lose for driving his daddy mad. He is smart enough to read his daddy’s gesture, and he knows it is not going to help if he continues to annoy his daddy.
Finally, I got to calm him down on my shoulder. My shoulder is still the best for him.
Poor baby… BAD Daddy!!! Mommy lov u… Mommy will not scold u lidis, ok?
i think he’s still not used to being outside the womb lah.. cuddle him more!
er jie fu…..be patient…..k?
eeerrkk!! the warning alarm beeping.. luckily Hayden doesnt understand the sentence yet :) Please look at it as a test to your patience and your handling of new role ya! The new role & countless responsibilities are gonna stuck with you forever till the moment you leave this world, like it or not! :P
I am trying to understand him better.
haha, sam, be a lil bit more patient with your little boi, i know it’s hard when you’re in the situation, but just try harder, k?
Afterall, this is the moment you’ll remember forever!
Don’t feel bad about cursing. It is completely normal for you to lose patience, especially middle of the night when you are so tired. Completely understandable…
Jerry,
I was trying to look for something else to distract my anger, I think cursing is a good way to cool down. Verbal-effect is always better than actions, actions as in beating or whacking.
Suzette,
hahaa… Thanks for your understanding.
Cursing is not good, but anyhow, the kids will learn the word somewhere, from tv or friends, we can’t avoid that. Perhaps we may need to introduce some vulgars to them, but we have to tell them not to use it unless they want to become a naughty boy or girl.